You believe if you can only have this person in your life, you'll be the happiest person on earth. But when this person comes into your life after a while you'll wish he never did. Because he'll make you miserable! And so it is on this plane. So learn to be detached! A good example of detachment is this: Let’s say you have a dream. In that dream you are a little person and you grow up. You get married and you buy a brand new home. You buy a brand new car. You have three children and they grow up. And you live a relatively good life. And then you awaken from the dream. Let me ask you, how long are you attached to your children of the dream before you forget about them? How long are you attached to your wife or husband of the dream before you forget about them? How long are you attached to your car and house? And anything else that you worked so hard to get in the dream, before you forget about them? A couple of seconds? A minute? An hour? It’s usually minutes, you forget all about the dream. This is detachment.

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