On racism in the United? States

I'm white, I want this to stop, let there be no doubt about this. So, the crucial question is: "how are we going to stop this?". By further opposing black versus white? By protesting violently and causing further deaths and grief (even if it is on the other side)? Or by uniting black and white? Forgetting for a while we are different. Clearly what we have done up until now has not worked. So, why do more of the same? What we need is a new vision. A vision that doesn't just want to punish and harm the attacker as if that is going to help. The attacker needs treatment, lots of treatment and I kid you not this treatment has to be loving because that is what the attacker clearly lacks LOVE. What about the victim, you are going to ask me? It is true, he is dead. Do we really believe that death has the final word? He is lovingly accepted on the other side, I am quite sure about this. If you are not, that is fine, but then you are not going to stop these events from happening again and again. And was that not our COMMON GOAL from the beginning?